The real problem with so-called master/student relationships is the idea of intention.
The problem you are encountering is you have given me intentions. You really believe that I am capable of doing something intentionally. Intentions justify action which is always limited — we are back to the notion of unmotivated action again!
Action sustains intention, as intentions justify actions;
or the reverse.
Actions sustain limited intentions, which define death.
Motivated action leads to death